Tales of Wonderlost

I'm a Korean-American adoptee living in Seoul, just finished my MA in Anthropology (yes, i took all of my classes in Korean TT). In my spare time, I volunteer at two great organizations: Korean Unwed Mothers' Families Association (KUMFA) and the Women's Global Solidarity Action Network (WGSAN) - a group that works on various issues, including with the survivors of military sexual slavery during WWII ("Comfort Women"). I also love cooking and baking and going to the noraebang ^^ To make a monthly donation to the Korean Unwed Mothers' Families Association, please click below!! (You can also make a 1-time donation)
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do korean guys like arms? i have arms and i'm worried about whether or not they will find me attractive. i have legs too. is that a problem?
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This is the best message I’ve ever been sent.

had birthday dinner with sharon and ollie and jinwoo the day before our bday. the reason we couldn’t meet on our birthday? olliewalkerportfolio officially proposed to my twin sis ladyfaceshai yesterday! instead of rings, they got tattoos, so perfect for them^^ congrats to the happy couple!

한국미혼모가족협회는 이번주 일요일 (27일)에 경기 자조모임이 있습니다 아이돌봄 자원봉사자 2명을 모집하고자 합니다~ 시간은 오후 1시반부터 4시까지며 오산대역 근처 홈플러스 정문앞에서 만나서 같이 이동할 예정입니다~ 가능하신분 제게 연락주세요~ KUMFA is looking for 2 volunteers to babysit for its Gyeonggi-do chapter meeting this Sunday (27th) from 1:30-4:30pm. They will meet in front of the Home Plus at Osandae Station and go to the venue together. Please let me know if you can help!

Intree is looking for 3 volunteers to babysit this Saturday (26th) from 1:30-4:30 at KoRoot (near Gyeongbokgung Station, Line 3). Please let me know if you can help!

i had an amazing 32nd birthday in spite of myself.

yesterday, i had dinner at a lovely bulgarian restaurant with sharon and ollie (now her fiance, congrats!) and jinwoo. i got some really thoughtful gifts: a special josie maron argon oil set from sharon, skinfood products and dog treats from ollie, and a clarasonic face cleaner from jinwoo. and last time when jinwoo’s parents were here, they said they wanted to get me a bracelet for my birthday. so i also got this bracelet made. i had it designed to match the tiffany key necklace that jinwoo’s mom gave me as a wedding present. the bracelet is a lock with our initials on a larger circle. also, since it was my first birthday since we got married, jinwoo even had a cake special-made with my name and everything. wowza! as well as some of the most beautiful flowers i’ve ever seen. and then we went and ate crab. i’m a lucky lady to get so much love as a sister, sister-in-law(!), wife, and daughter-in-law 



Please do not scroll past this. This is lengthy, but please take care to read it. Our government is lying to us and trying to shut up the efforts of the families of the missing who are trying to tell the truth.

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once you reach a certain age, some people don’t necessarily like their birthdays because it reminds us of how old we are getting. but for me, even though i was always thankful for my family or friends for trying to make birthdays nice for me, i never really liked birthdays before i was 30 because it only served to remind me how, unlike most people, i didn’t know basic information about myself, like my birthday. i didn’t start to like my birthday until last year, when right before our 31st birthday, we were able to find our korean mom and know our real birthday for the first time since we were adopted. but i also feel sorry to my fellow adoptees who are hurting because they still don’t know their own birthdays. this year, i feel very saddened and upset because of the sewol ferry tragedy. in the midst of that sadness and anger, as i celebrate another birthday, i have come to realize how thankful we must be to be able to grow another year older.





Why can’t there be a male hooter’s equivalent where male servers are shirtless and highly sexualized for their bodies and looks

Male Strip clubs. You’re thinking of male strip clubs.

No. Not a male strip club. A…